And, no, the bit in Ezekiel about having them “bruised” is not anything specific. Nor is what Jesus said about “lust in the heart” because different couples would be able to handle levels of “affection” without either party lusting, especially considering that increasing age would make a difference.

And actually, the commandment against “coveting” was never considered to be about mere attraction, or even dwelling on it. Only if one despised or wished a husband out of the way, etc., would be guilty of coveting the wife. This was the understanding of the people that received the Tanakh, and Jesus said to respect their decisions.

While those who know this sometimes argue that Jesus’ words went further than the anti-coveting command, there is no real evidence of this. Jesus often reiterated what was already taught.

Jay L.

WORDPRESS says that our two blogs (at least our most recent posts) are related, so I came by to check you out–I hope you enjoy my slant on the topic. Please stop by my blog and let me know what you think: Jesus + Compassion.

God bless you!

Cd

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