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I’m kinda torn on this topic. I feel that sistas have not been getting their due for a long time. I think it is about competition at the highest levels, and sistas have an undeniable handicap in their race for the affection and respect of a man. Black men have their pick of all races, and many times sistas are not given the highest priority. Those stereotypes of sistas being selfish, self centered, emotionally unhinged, and “mouthy” are unfair…..all women of all races CAN have that problem.

With that being said, I think the expectation of perfection from a sista is not only unreal; it is the coward’s way out for some men, who don’t want to do some self reflection. With that being said, I am all about results. If a sista finds what she is looking for in a non-Black male, get in where you fit in. It is all about being happy, and having that person to walk with you throughout your life. Brother cannot secretly enjoy the moniker of being the “sexual prizes of the human race”, while keeping their balckness, and giving sistas a hard time for enjoying same admiration from men of other races.

loooooved this article.