When I read this piece, I thought about myself as a child as well as the many young black boys that are having trouble in school. Not just the Black boys, but all boys for that matter. Here is an excerpt:


“Most men detest classrooms and prolonged lectures. They require action, movement, and the freedom to explore their own interests.

One of a male’s most critical needs is satisfaction with his work.

When this need is stifled, the result is anger and apathy. These feelings are painful, and the male brain adapts to this through the use of denial, and a greatly decreased awareness of emotion. This entire process often occurs beneath the level of awareness.

Denial and lack of emotional integration cause men great difficulty in relating to women and sustaining committed relationships. This impairs their ability to be successful fathers or husbands. During my professional career as a social psychiatrist, I have seen this process thousands of times. Though there are many variations and exceptions to this cycle, to put it simply: Schools hurt men; men hurt their wives and their children.” (more…)


 

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